I suppose as enthusiasts, we probably (sometimes) have somewhat different park experiences than the average guest. But I do think that really appreciating any medium involves a holistic understanding of its intended audience and intents, and if you're not able to accept that, then to me you are missing some of the point of being "into theme parks". It would be like... being bored of gore when you're really into slasher films, or something.
So all the stuff that I too find a bit whatever, like the same dark ride plot structure or staff enthusiasm, needs appreciating in its context. I remember being five years old and being so excited to go help the men in black or whatever.
Of course, I don't presume to say these things are not tedious after a while, and I too can't be bothered with a lot of theme park shenanigans, but I can still think about it with a kind of warm smile in appreciation of what 'theme parks are', you know?
(addendum: all the wallet-grabbing **** parks increasingly do is always uncool though lol)